How do you feel about sex toys? Do they make you feel awkward or uncomfortable? Or do you use them yourself? Do you use them alone or with others? I personally enjoy using toys during my solo play time and while I’m with a partner.
A lot of the time I see misconceptions about using adult toys while you’re engaging with a partner, and that it somehow means that your partner must not be “good enough” to satisfy you. While this is definitely a plausible case for some couples, for myself (and dare I say most others) toys are added simply to boost pleasure and excitement in the bedroom! I love the feel of a butt plug inside of me while I’m having sex, or holding a vibrator against my clit. Hell, I’ll take both simultaneously! A vibrator enhances my orgasm in a way that a human partner simply cannot! And I definitely don’t think it means my partner is inadequate if I want to use toys during sex.
Now that I’ve rambled about using sex toys long enough, I’ll get to what I actually wanted to talk to you about! My very favorite toys to use! You might be surprised by what you find out about me.
- Hitachi
This toy probably doesn’t come as a surprise at all. What pussy-having person doesn’t love the Hitachi? I feel sorry for all of the poor clits who haven’t experienced the heavenly buzz of a Hitachi on them. You’ve probably seen this toy already, but if you’re unsure of what it is; the Hitachi is SUPER high powered vibrator. It looks like a giant egg on a stick!
2. Nipple Clamps
Okay, so if you didn’t know this about me, I 👏 love 👏 pain . 👏 I’m a huge masochist and love all sorts of pain play. I think I love nipple clamps so much because my nipples have never been particularly sensitive. Before I got them pierced, I was able to twist and pull on them with practically no sensation! I’ve heard this is common in busty women, so I didn’t think much of it but I was always disappointed that I couldn’t feel much pain in my nipples even when I tried. After I got my nipple piercings my life was changed! I finally had some sensitivity in my titties. This was super exciting to me and I wanted to try nipple clamps immediately. I got some from Amazon and I kid you not, fell in love. I’m so serious when I say I genuinely enjoy the way pain feels. (Consensual pain, of course.) I love to pull on my clamps and push my limits on how tight I can stand to have them!
3. Glass Anal Toys
As I mentioned at the beginning of this post, I absolutely love having a butt plug inside me during vaginal intercourse. There’s something about having both of my holes filled up at the same time that’s so sexy. I can’t get enough of it! My preferred anal toy material is glass. It feels so smooth and slides in and out of my tight butt with ease. For me personally, it feels like silicone anal toys don’t glide as easily, which is something very important to me when I’m stretching out something as tight as my booty! Nothing compares to the feeling of pumping a smooth glass dildo in and out of my ass while I have a vibrator pressed up against my pussy!
Are you surprised I didn’t list dildos at all in my favorite sex toy list?! Filling up my pussy is nice when I want to make myself squirt, but a dildo just isn’t the same as a real cock! It’s so cold when you slip it in, not warm and throbbing like a penis. It’s just… not my ideal toy. Don’t get me wrong, I can really get into pounding myself with a toy! However, it is definitely not my preferred way to cum! I’d much rather plug up my butt and press the Hitachi against me full power til I scream!!!